What I Learned Spending 20 Months Waiting for a Crush

What does a man mean when they call a woman “fun”?

Bettina Baker
The Bettina Baker Diaries
5 min readDec 24, 2020

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Tall.

Successful.

Maybe not “traditionally” handsome but I was definitely attracted.

March 2019. We met while I was working. He came back twice to find me. The third time was a charm.

We exchanged business cards. We met later that evening. That’s where the fun began.

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